Why Blended Families Have To Think About Wills And Trusts
Author: James A. Miller, Estate Planning Attorney / Category: Asset Protection, Estate Planning / Posted: 23 Aug 2011It is becoming more and more common these days for families to be blended. This means that there are children of each spouse from a previous relationship and/or the new couple have children of their own. In the midst of new relationships being formed, it is important to have a will or a trust in place to ensure that your property, and your wishes, are protected.
What is the difference between a will and a trust? Although some people believe that they are one and the same, a trust cannot replace a will. A trust will usually only focus on specific assets, while a will encompasses everything that is part of the person’s estate.
Why is this important for a blended family? Because if one of the blended spouses dies, how will their assets be divided? Without the proper documentation, the state, and not the remaining spouse gets to determine where the assets go. In some states, the property is split with the surviving spouse automatically receiving half. In this case, what happens to the other half?
In a family where there are no children from a previous relationship, dividing property is easier. But when there are step-children, children that primarily live with an ex-spouse, or children from the newly-married couple, things can get ugly in a hurry. It is easy to fight over which child deserves or needs more. Plus, the surviving spouse may resent part of the estate going to the household of an ex-spouse.
Without a will, the state makes the rules. Then you have to worry about someone contesting a decision, which is very likely to occur. Now, not only do you have to worry about assets not being divided according to your wishes, but those assets will have to be liquidated in order to pay the mounting legals bills from lawsuits.
In order to ensure that all children, and your spouse, is sufficiently provided for, it is essential that you have a will to disperse your property. Losing a loved one is painful enough: not having a will in place could cause the remainder of the family to break apart.
The Law Offices of James A. Miller is a member of the American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys.



